Bittersweet Goodbyes

Today was really bittersweet as it was our last day at Heritage. It was probably our most extreme day of highs and lows. Each of us had a touching moment that reminded us of the work we had done with our students, but it also pained us to say goodbye to the kids we had built such strong relationships with, even in only 8 days.

Our last day in the classroom was very different from our previous seven. We all wanted to have fun with our students today, so some of us chose to play games while others had the students take a turn teaching the teachers. Today was as much about sharing culture and experiences as it was about continuing to share our educational interests. Sydney had a great time playing partner tag with her first class, Jennie had us all laughing when she told us about her game of “Red Light, Green Light,” and Jake and Teresa were impressed by the students’ choices of challenging words while they played Hangman. On the other hand, Sydney’s second class demanded to be taught, and they were able to grasp the Fibonacci sequence and the concept of infinity in one 50-minute class.

In our last reading periods, we noticed how far our students had come after reading one-on-one with us for the past week. We were shocked by their growth, and we’re optimistic that their improvement will continue. Anne had consistently used the same technique to help her students self-correct errors while reading aloud, and she was happy to notice today that her kids were helping each other using the same method. Teresa, who has been working with a student named Isaac for the last week, noticed significant improvement in his reading skills, making her feel like she has really made an impact at Heritage.

Despite these amazing highs, we all experienced some of our lowest lows. It was in the back of our minds throughout the day that this was our last day here. At the end of every other class, we had said “See you tomorrow!” but today, several of us had to catch ourselves and simply say “Good-bye.” One of Jennie’s students asked her throughout the day, “Are you leaving yet?” She was able to reassure him for most of the day that she would still be there for a few more hours, but eventually, the time came when she had to say yes.

At the end of the day, the school surprised us by holding a small assembly in our honor. We had an official chance to say thank you and good-bye to all of the students and teachers who had welcomed us to their school. We all had a chance to speak individually, but Mike blew all of us away with his eloquent and heartfelt speech thanking the kids and encouraging them to continue working hard in school (Lilah cried). DeGraft, the school’s headmaster, presented us all with traditionally wood-carved stools. They represented the strength of the relationship between Heritage and F&M, a relationship we all hope continues.

Looking back on our 8 days with our classes and reading groups, we all feel like we grew along with our students. We hope to continue the relationships we’ve made, both personally through written letters, and institutionally through future trips and support of the academy. We are excited to have two more days to explore Ghana, but we all recognize that the main purpose of our trip has come to a close. However, we know we will continue to learn and grow from these experiences with our students long after we return home.

Love,
Anne, Greg, and Alexis

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2 thoughts on “Bittersweet Goodbyes

  1. jduckloe says:

    Have loved your posts and feel for you having to say good bye to Heritage. Hope you stay in touch. Greg’s sister has just begun her Ghana trip and was on the beach near Anamoba on her way to Sekondi. Can’t wait to see you and hear your stories in person. Safe travels.

  2. Ron & Sue Kline says:

    We really enjoyed experiencing Heritage Academy with you through your blog posts. We will miss it as we’ll ! Enjoy your remaining time in Ghana.

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